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Friday 17 July 2009

How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You

Let's get started. Getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting the car of your dream. But unlike a car which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 percent discount in courting the girl of your dreams, she's so sweet a thing to be discounted, you dearly are in love with her and your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on how big your heart is - faint heart, never won fair lady.

The first dating idea for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl's attention. Be unique, that's all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently - indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language - obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good habits - don't drink or smoke like any other loser.

How to make her fall in love with you? Take your time. Add some romance to your dating style. When in College I had a crush on the most beautiful lady in our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from the other guys. I wrote her three letters without disclosing my identity and slid into her room secretly; all I said was 'Yours Secret Admirer.' The first letter contained the meaning of her name, this I got by playing around with the initials of her name to make meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards and it was all about her physique and her smartness. In the third letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a rose flower from her admirer, but only if she could be kind enough to phone him using a number that I had included in the letter. The girl did phone me that very night, and her first words to me were, "Hallo Secret Admirer." So, the story of our love affair came to be. Later she told me that was so creative of me, no one had approached her in that manner. I made her fall in love with me and made a date in the romantic manner.

Befriending and understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored and needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you'll get to know what she's into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built upon friendship and it always leaves individuals better off having known each other should they break up. I and my College steady were to break some time later but to date, we are the best of buddies. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will make her create room for you in her heart.

A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This above all other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she'll have found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.

Make the girl feel special; because she's someone's friend - your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.

In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream with her, build with her, and always cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Let the girl know that she's your first thing in the morning and the last thing when you go to bed at night.

Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go 'my my' and her heart will sing your name all the year round.

You have to be creative and constructive to keep girl's interest in you so full of life. I remember one time I told my girlfriend to be to imagine we are both deaf and dump. We then sat opposite each other on the table and started sharing our feelings for each other using eyes and hand signs. It turned out to be some fun. There was also this time that we were in the library and we decided we are not going to speak to each other verbal, so I wrote a love note on a paper and passed it across the table to her, she replied and on and on we carried on our love on paper conversation till we almost exhausted a whole rim of paper. At sometime, I noticed that some guys sited with us on the table were enjoying our ordeal than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting that we play deaf and dump two years after we broke up, can you imagine that?

Never fail to phone her, even when she least expects it. I once called some girl that I was interested in at four o'clock in the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can't sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, she was at my door with a king-sized hug for me. No matter how many dates you take her, don't make any elbow - exceeding moves after any date, just drop her home and with a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Don't kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to such matters as kissing her and accessing her inner graces.

The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you can't have her just yet. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much cold, she's actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she'll be so much into you and since love is truthful and is characterized by open and honest communication, honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll always be there for her, to listen and to hold her hand, and that you'll always do your best to make her happy, and feel loved.

Remember, patience is the key to her heart; be like that gardener watching a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, but, exercising tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor testing it to see if it is ready. And then, one day he holds out his hand and the fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and eager to be eaten.

The patience and self-control which you practice will make you more attractive and charming. This will qualify you as her daily vitamin and win you that heart hers.

I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams ASAP, make her fall in love with you, and make her feel the happiest girl in the world!

How to Write a Persuasive Essay

Writing a persuasive essay is much like preparing for a debate. You need to study your persuasive essay topic from various perspectives, establish your main argument and gather supporting evidence. You also need to know how to write a persuasive essay, namely how to organize parts of the persuasive essay in the way that will work best.

Try the following instructions on how to write a persuasive essay. They are indispensable in writing a well-planned and thoroughly considered persuasive essay.

1.Start with an Impressive Lead-In

The introduction of your persuasive essay is the first words you utter to render the readers to be well-disposed to you. Moreover, it is by the introduction that the reader decides whether to go on reading you essay or leave it in peace. Thus, the introduction of your essay should be attention grabbing and impressive enough to induce the reader to read further on.

Writing a persuasive essay, you need to pay particular attention to the first sentence you are going to write down, namely a lead-in. It is the most important part of the whole persuasive essay, out of which you come out either a winner or a loser.

To write a strong and impressive lead-in, try the following strategies:
7.start with an unusual detail;
8.put a strong statement;
9.quote a famous person;
10.introduce a short and up-to-the-point anecdote;
11.open the essay with a statistic or fact;
12.start with an emphatic rhetorical question;

Before deciding on one of the strategies, try all of them. You will be surprised to find out how different strategies can enrich and smarten up the introduction to your persuasive essay.

After you have put the opening sentence, be sure to introduce a sentence that will show that you see both pros and cons of the subject matter under consideration. Then write a thesis or focus statement, which has to reveal your own point of view. A well-formulated thesis statement is the key to success, as it is the central part of your essay, around which all other parts are organized.

Remember that a good introduction should be brief, concise and end with a closing sentence that will be transitional to the next paragrath.

2.Support Your Thesis in the Body

The body of your persuasive essay is the main part of your writing where you present supporting evidence and elaborate on the reasons you stated previously. The body should be a proof that you have researched and examined your persuasive essay topic and that your arguments are reasonable and reliable.

In order to prove your thesis statement and dispel the opposing arguments, you need to: 1) state the facts of the case; 2) prove your thesis with arguments; and 3) disprove your opponent's arguments in three consecutive steps.

Statement of facts is a non-argumentative presentation of details, summaries and narration concerning the problem discussion. In this part of the body you should present supporting evidence without stating your own point of view and trying to persuade the readers in it.

First, you should remind the readers of some events, provide vivid illustrations that will show the significance of the topic. Statement of facts should be clear, brief, and vivid. If you obscure the facts, you are defeating the purpose. Thus, delete irrelevant information and information which contributes little to the reader's understanding.

After you've introduced some facts, you can get down to proving your thesis with arguments. This should be the longest section and the central part of your persuasive essay. With the readers rendered attentive by the introduction and informed by the statement of fact, you must show why your position concerning the facts should be accepted and believed.

Now comes the time to deny the truth on which the opposing argument is built. Be patient in thinking over the refutation. It is the most difficult stage that needs time, concentration and absorption.

The proven way to hook readers' attention is to leave your strongest argument for last so that to leave them with your best thought.

3.Write a Memorable Conclusion.

Your conclusion should be a "mirror image" of your introduction. It means that you should refresh the reader's memory and remind him of the thesis statement you put in the introduction. It is not a mere waste of time or words, but the best way to convince the reader to take your side.

As well as in writing the introduction, you can try several ways to write a memorable conclusion for your persuasive essay.

Except for restating the introduction, you can summarize the main points to enable the readers to recall the main points of your position.

A nice way to conclude the persuasive essay is to write a personal comment or call for action. It could be: 1) your prediction; 2) a question that will let the readers make their own predictions; 3) your recommendations to solve a problem; 4) a quotation. It's up to you to decide!

The last line of your persuasive essay, that is the "tag line," needs special attention, for it is the second most important line after the lead-in. Thus, it is important that it:
4.renders the readers to be well disposed to you;
5.magnifies your points;
6.puts the readers in the proper mood.

Once you have put the full stop after the "tag line", your work is over. But make sure that the words you have put in your persuasive essay will be "working" long after your readers stop reading it.

Sunday 5 July 2009

Antiquity of jokes

Jokes have been a part of human culture since at least 1900 BCE. A fart joke from ancient Sumer is currently believed to be the world's oldest known joke[1]

A recent discovery of a document called Philogelos (The Laughter Lover) gives us an insight into ancient humour. Written in Greek by Hierocles and Philagrius, it dates to the third or fourth century AD, and contains some 260 jokes. Considering humour from our own culture as recent as the 19th century is at times baffling to us today, the humour is surprisingly familiar. They had different Stereotypes, the Absent-minded professor, the eunuch, and people with hernias or bad breath were favourites. A lot of the jokes play on the idea of knowing who you are:

a barber, a bald man and an absent minded professor take a journey together. They have to camp overnight, so decide to take turns watching the luggage. When it's the barber's turn, he gets bored, so amuses himself by shaving the head of the professor. When the professor is woken up for his shift, he feels his head, and says "How stupid is that barber? He's woken up the bald man instead of me.

Another joke goes: "A man tells a well-known wit: "I had your wife, without paying a penny". The husband replies: "It's my duty as a husband to couple with such a monstrosity. What made you do it?"

There is even a version of Monty Python's Dead Parrot sketch: a man buys a slave, who dies shortly afterwards. When he complains to the slave merchant, he is told: "He didn't die when I owned him." Comic Jim Bowen has presented them to a modern audience. "One or two of them are jokes I've seen in people's acts nowadays, slightly updated. They put in a motor car instead of a chariot - some of them are Tommy Cooper-esque."[2]

Why Confidentiality is Critical when Selling a Business

The business purchase and sale process is one that is unfamiliar to most people. Selling a business is different than most real estate deals and business buyers are usually surprised at the discretion that business owners take when selling a business. This article will comment on some of the main reasons why discretion is paramount when we sell a company.

Why is confidentiality so important during a business sale?

Employees
Most business owners do not want to let their employees know that their business is up for sale. During a business for sale transaction, one of the most important things that a vendor can do is to maintain the stability of the company’s operation. Business buyers do not like unnecessary risks and the best thing that an owner can do is maintain an aura of stability and calm during the sales process. There is the risk that if employees found out about the business for sale then they might start to question the stability of their employment and start to look elsewhere.

Vendors
A business does not want to let their vendors know that they are selling the business. A company wants to ensure that their supply of merchandise is solid and also that the vendors do not spread the word about the company for sale and potentially inform employees or customers.

Customers
Selling a business is unique in that the identity of the business is not disclosed when it is advertised. A business owner would not want to let their customers know about the business sale. Sometimes customers can be suspicious as to why the business is for sale. A business owner would usually like to control how the sale is communicated and when. Conversely, a business buyer would also like to be involved in the messaging of a the sale and inform customers and other parties on their terms and timetable.

Why is it important to manage how customers are told about the business sale?

Selling a business is a delicate process in that the new owner would like to have as seamless a transition as possible. Especially with small businesses for sale, the buyers would like to be introduced by the old owners during the training or transition period. This allows the new owner to be properly introduced to the customer base and show clients that nothing will change with respect to the service they’re accustomed to receiving. Managing the disclosure of the sale is important for this reason.

Why is detailed financial information not readily available to all interested “buyers”?

The reality is that most business “buyers” will never buy a business. There are many, many window-shoppers and it is important for the business owner that sensitive financial information be only given to serious buyers. This is a major way in which selling a business is different than selling a house or property. A business buyer must be content to proceed on the basis that they will not be given 100% of the financial information upfront and that they must be prepared to go to the offer stage without the benefit of full disclosure. Typically, when we sell a business, we ask buyers to sign a confidentiality agreement. They are then screened and qualified by us (the business broker) before they are invited to view the business. At this point they are given just enough information to decide whether or not they want to buy the business but full disclosure only occurs during the due diligence process. Due diligence is entered into only after a conditional sale is agreed upon along with a deposit.

Selling a business is a very unique transaction. Not only is it important to manage the financial and ‘factual’ part of the deal but it is also important to manage the flow of information to ensure that confidentiality is respected.

Avoiding Online Money Making Scams in Internet Business Opportunities

You don't have to be in the arena of online business opportunities very long to realize that there are some shark-infested waters to avoid. Not everyone is friendly; not everyone has your best interest at heart. There may be times as you navigate these waters, that you are nothing more than bait for the feeding frenzy.

Everywhere you turn there is another offer, another promise, another "hurry up, get it here before they're all gone," all working to take your operating capital. And for most newbies, operating capital may be in very short supply.

Your whole premise for getting into making money online is just that - to make money not have your money taken from you in some "pie in the sky" deal.

They all sound so good, don't they? Most of those landing pages and ads are written and designed by advertising professionals. They know all your hot buttons. They know you want to work at home and make money using the Internet. So they are geared to speak to that need.

Some will tell you they have the very business you are looking for. No work - just hundreds of dollars coming to you while you sleep. Others are selling their knowledge: how to write selling ad copy; how to create a great landing page, how to make money blogging, how to drive traffic to your website, and on and on. They have a way of making it sound so simple and easy.

If you have already fallen for a few of these deals, and they didn't pan out, the key is to learn from the experience and move on. Don't let it sour you on the whole scene, and don't beat yourself up over it.

Next time, try not to be so impetuous. Realize that the same deal you are reading about today will be there next week. Analyze the offer. Is this really taking you closer to your goal, or is it taking you in a totally different direction? Read the reviews for the offer. What are others saying about it? Look for names of trusted internet marketers. They're out there; they've been doing business for years. Follow the known leaders in the industry.

What you might perceive as a scam, in actuality may not be. Perhaps you were dissatisfied or disillusioned simply because the business model proved to be more difficult than they advertised it to be.

If you are truly serious about creating an online business that will allow you to earn money from home by using the Internet, then make the commitment to invest the time and energy (read that work) that is required. Be ready to invest several months to a year to get it up and going strong.

There will always be entities out there promising more than they will ever deliver. If you run up against one, just dust yourself off, learn your lesson and keep on going. Because for every shyster on the Net, there are dozens of caring people with information and products and services that are designed to help you along your path to success. It's your job to discern the difference.

If you are committed to being a success no scam artist of any size will be able to stop you!

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